Saturday, September 12, 2009

Look Beyond Criticizm:

I love when people start talking behind my back and criticize and don't even know why they do it and there is no fact to support it.Mainly there are 3 reasons.
1:People want to justify their ego by putting me down and want to look and prove they are better than me.
2:People are missing something what I have and what they are missing.
3:Most off all may be what they expect me to do for them and they start thinking that I don't do enough for them.
But I don't want to even know why they don't have any guts to come across me and tell me what is their real problems and may be I can help them.At the same time I start smiling that I have enough juice in me and they can't stand to tolerate my guts that they have to talk behind me back,truly I love it!
Criticism gives me strength and give energy that I am not weak.Stronger survive that is life.People has very short memory and they are like rats in the ship,who jump first when there is fire in the ship.And think and look back in the history how many weak people world remember.Always famous,smart and powerful people are never forgotten.So obviously by criticizing me they make me powerful,strong and most importantly enforce me to do better than what they are worth.
It doesn't mean that I don't listen to the correct criticism and don't change myself,I do and I never forget to make necessary changes in my life and without letting them know I try to change myself.
Mostly people or close ones,they assume things or listen to stupid people around me and join in the crowd and start badmouthing me.I hate when this happens because if they can't be satisfied with what they have,I am not God To help them.
See that's why trust in every relationship is very important whether it is kids and parents,husband and wife,between friends,employers and employee,lovebirds,rivals or whatever!So when I find out when people want to hurt me by badmouthing or criticizing me,I love them.They tell me in a way that they don't like me and they don't trust me and they are not worth to be your friends.
So again fall back to my basic principal,if you think you are right and not hurting anyone by doing what you are ,don't change your path.People who are confused and undecided will change their path because they don't have confidence in themselves.So make sure you trust yourself and move ahead in life and success will follow you.I still believe in the say that says how can you love somebody when you don't love yourself and you have to be beautiful to enjoy beauty.
So be confident and love yourself to move ahead in life and I guarantee you you never be disappointed.

1 comment:

  1. Hi dad. I'm leaving you a comment to show you that I do read your blog. UPDATE THAT!

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